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Flashers: The Other Side of the Raincoat - Interview with a Flasher

Posted on Tuesday, November 05 @ 01:41:36 CST

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Submitted by: Laura

In the latter part of April, an articulate gentlemen sent me a letter asking if I'd be interested in interviewing him. He eventually revealed he went through a phase of "flashing" in his life. Having been flashed myself-- at times feeling angry, others strangely intrigued -- I agreed to do the interview as I have always wanted to know who was on the otherside of that metaphorical raincoat.

Raincoat flasher exposed

Laura: What sort of vague, yet slightly specific bio would you like to give me? Nothing to give away your identity, just some general background.

Raincoat: I’m in my late 30s now. The madness was going on in my early 30s. I hold a BA, never been married, and have always been a sort of misfit. My relationships with women have typically been solid friendships. I’m the guy they’d come running to when their crummy boyfriends dumped them.

I’ve been called cute, nice, reliable, and “you’re too much like a brother, to me.” But on the flipside, I’ve had problems at the other extreme: a few women who’ve quickly wanted me to be their one & only.

Laura: I have been flashed several times. I'd like you to explain or try to get in the mind of the flasher and may be help me understand what the guy was thinking or feeling. First, an ATM flasher. He walked out of the bushes with his khakis around his knees and was stroking his flaccid penis in my general direction. For some reason I said to him, "Sir, you pants are around your knees."

Did he hear me? What response was he seeking?

Raincoat: Ok. I can speak for myself, as appended by the scant professional literature that exists on this subject. There are always exceptions to any profile, so I don’t claim to offer any definitive answers about exhibitionists—as if they were molecules with known & unchanging properties. With that said...

Rarely does an exhibitionist show his flaccid dick.

However, I can think of times when an opportunity presents itself, and the flasher isn’t ready. What do I mean by opportunity? The flasher may have a certain type of person he likes to expose himself to. But it’s not that simple. Things have to line up properly.

First of all, no one else should be able to see. Second, the flasher wants to have a full erection.

Sometimes the erection is there, and the ideal “audience” is present, but then someone steps into the picture—someone who might be able to see. Then the whole plan is ruined. The flasher opts not to flash at all. This happens a great deal, things are always going wrong. People are always moving around. The “audience” might finish the newspaper she was reading, then get up & leave. Someone may come & sit down right in the line-of-sight.

Opportunities come & go in seconds.

What I suspect with the ATM flasher is that everything lined up, except for the hard-on. He sounds like he took a gamble, and hoped he could get hard while you were present.

What kind of response was he looking for? I think that you gave the perfect response if you wanted to express dismay, and destroy whatever thrill he sought. However, the typical exhibitionist is looking for positive feedback. There are those who admit to going out with the express purpose of pissing people off, but those flashers are rare.

The typical flasher is a socially feckless personality who’s looking for some sort of approval. They aren’t “advertising” or looking for a physical encounter. Thus, a comment like: “Hey, dude, let me suck that thing” would have been similar to what you’d said about his pants being around his knees. The exhibitionist is typically about nothing more than exhibiting.

Laura: Second, this man passed me in his car as I'm driving down the road. I joke to my friend he looked like a Mormon. Around the curb he was out of his car, pants unzipped and whipping his man-club in a helicopter blade motion. This is the first time a man sped past me in a car to make this same motion. It has happened several times. Can you walk through this process and perhaps explain these auto-erotic incidents.

Raincoat: Again, this sounds like someone wanting to show himself and garner some type of positive feedback.

Laura: I have always wanted to know the answer to this - why do men who are flaccid flash? I have to say that Mormon definitely made me say "Oh, God." Single handedly he explained why women might be so happy with polygamy.

Raincoat: Again, my experience, and what I’ve read suggests that these were unusual situations, and the guys couldn’t get it up in time.

Laura: What was the state of your hot rod when you whipped it out? Was it important to be all the man you could be?

Raincoat: The vast majority of the time: fully erect.

Laura: Talking genitals: is your tool odd shaped, average, distinctive or what does it look like? Big balls? Circumcised? Are you hairy or shaved?

Raincoat grins: Well, I think this is the best answer to that... (Unzips pants, exposes his genitals.) Would you like to take a picture for the article?

Laura: Sure, why not? [Image available in the Member's Area] Does your penis have a name?

Raincoat: No name.

Laura: So, when you were exposing youself, what were you holding in your hand? Your cock? Your "self?" A feeling?

Raincoat: I’d hold my dick. Never made direct eye contact; only enough to get an idea of whether she was into watching me, or not.

If the lady was watching me, I wouldn’t risk ruining it by making eye contact, I’d just let her watch until one of us had to leave or if someone came and ruined the arrangement. But whether it had been 5 seconds or 3 minutes, she & I (2 strangers) shared a little secret.

However, If she showed irritation, I felt like a huge piece of shit.

Laura: Describe the first time you whipped it out.

Raincoat: I have a hard time remembering that.

Laura: Did you do it so many times you can't recall?

...Continued

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Read the full interview, illustrated with pictures at Flasher Party Girls Gone Wild

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